In a toxic relationship gaslighting is when your narcissistic partner twists and manipulates everything you know as truth so that it’s completely different than what you remember, causing you to distrust yourself and trust them instead.
𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢.
Have you ever spoke to someone and realised you both have a different memory of what happened?
This is natural because we have different perspectives of the world.
Gaslighting is to control and trick you to believing you are losing your mind.
Some narcissists go as far as: moving your things so you can’t find them, deleting your emails without your knowing, telling your friends that you’re crazy – and then telling you he warned them about you, and ….. well, I’m sure you have your own stories!
There are many things a narcissistic will do to have control over you.
The result….
…… which I’m sure if you’ve read this far…..
…… you are well aware of…..
☉ You feel stuck in the relationship.
☉ You’ve lost all hope of getting out.
☉ You don’t believe you can ever heal.
☉ You are zapped of energy.
☉ You’ve lost your motivation to do self care.
☉ You have no more energy to build your business.
☉ Your friends and family tell you he’s no good for you… but you’re so addicted you can’t get out.
☉ You lost your confidence.
☉ You are so confused why this is happening to you.
☉ You don’t have the self-esteem or self-confidence you used to have.
☉ You feel as if you’ve lost full control of your life, your emotions, your thoughts and….
☉ Have lost hope.
Even if you feel just one or two of the above is true for you, then it’s time for you to get support!!
Now, if you think you’re too strong and won’t ever let this happen to you….
Let me warn you now that gaslighting comes on so slowly you don’t realise it … until you’ve been brainwashed and are addicted to the patterns.
These patterns create a chemical in your brain similar to an addiction of playing lottery.
√ I help women in business heal from toxic patterns and move on from an unhealthy relationship so they can reclaim their Goddess Powers and Feminine Self and focus on moving their life forward and launching their business to the next level.
√ If you’re resonating with this it would be my deepest honour to support you.
Santosha was born in Canada, then lived in Australia for 26 years, and now is in Tamil Nadu, India, deepening her Sadhana. She holds five University Degrees, including in Counselling and Psychology, as well as a Master's Degree in Education. She is a Certified Emotion Code Practitioner, empath and intuitive. She has been a Reiki Master for over 20 years and is now a Reiki Grand Master who has been Divinely Guided by Source to assist others to get unstuck from toxic patterns so they can raise their energy vibration and live a life they love.
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